Friday, October 30, 2009
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Petty issues with parents...
Hey,
I guess this is a very well-known topic among the teens! I mean, there are small diagreements with parents from your hairstyle to your friends, your marks at school to your television habits, your future plans to your curfew, it might just seem like you argue with your parents about everything. You often ask this question to yourself as 'why me??'. It seems as if your parents cannot decide whether you're a kid or an adult 'cuz sometimes they say is "stop acting like a baby" and sometimes they go saying "You're too small for this...!"
Not only are the parents confused but they confuse us too, like when are we supposed to act big and when to act small.
I think the cause of such fights may be related to lack of freedom, lack of voicing your own opinions, lack of trust and understanding and a lot due to wrong image of the teens shown in movies n magazines.
Due to the image shown in movies and magazines of the teenagers, all the parents have a misunderstanding that even their child may prefer the bad path under wrong influence. I agree that there are such cases of getting wrongly influenced but statistically speaking the chances are 30 out of every 100.
But the parents have an upperhand in most of the fights leading to suppression of feelings especially of anger in teens. This also surely results in hiding true feeling from parents and worse lying to them about your feelings. I am sure no parent can understand such suppression and hence more fights take place.
But I think, as its a normal and a natural phenomena, We on our part, Should try and avoid such fights by-
1.All fights can't be avoided, and sometimes a fight is needed to work out an issue. However, you should be proud of yourself when you succeed in keeping your emotions in check: It's a tough skill but a useful one.
2.Remember, your parents are people, too -- people who make mistakes, just like you.
3.If you can, find another way of getting out your anger and frustration, such as exercise, art or music. You may find that it improves your relationships with others and/or makes you a calmer person in general.
4.Count till 10 in your head.
5.Think of a way that your parents have helped or pleased you.
6.Politely remind others that you need a little space.
7.Consider what else is going on in your parents' lives.
8.Consider what else is going on in your own life.
9.Remind yourself that fighting usually doesn't solve problems.
10.Slow down and think.
I hope this helps in solving some of the most basic problems in life.
I guess this is a very well-known topic among the teens! I mean, there are small diagreements with parents from your hairstyle to your friends, your marks at school to your television habits, your future plans to your curfew, it might just seem like you argue with your parents about everything. You often ask this question to yourself as 'why me??'. It seems as if your parents cannot decide whether you're a kid or an adult 'cuz sometimes they say is "stop acting like a baby" and sometimes they go saying "You're too small for this...!"
Not only are the parents confused but they confuse us too, like when are we supposed to act big and when to act small.
I think the cause of such fights may be related to lack of freedom, lack of voicing your own opinions, lack of trust and understanding and a lot due to wrong image of the teens shown in movies n magazines.
Due to the image shown in movies and magazines of the teenagers, all the parents have a misunderstanding that even their child may prefer the bad path under wrong influence. I agree that there are such cases of getting wrongly influenced but statistically speaking the chances are 30 out of every 100.
But the parents have an upperhand in most of the fights leading to suppression of feelings especially of anger in teens. This also surely results in hiding true feeling from parents and worse lying to them about your feelings. I am sure no parent can understand such suppression and hence more fights take place.
But I think, as its a normal and a natural phenomena, We on our part, Should try and avoid such fights by-
1.All fights can't be avoided, and sometimes a fight is needed to work out an issue. However, you should be proud of yourself when you succeed in keeping your emotions in check: It's a tough skill but a useful one.
2.Remember, your parents are people, too -- people who make mistakes, just like you.
3.If you can, find another way of getting out your anger and frustration, such as exercise, art or music. You may find that it improves your relationships with others and/or makes you a calmer person in general.
4.Count till 10 in your head.
5.Think of a way that your parents have helped or pleased you.
6.Politely remind others that you need a little space.
7.Consider what else is going on in your parents' lives.
8.Consider what else is going on in your own life.
9.Remind yourself that fighting usually doesn't solve problems.
10.Slow down and think.
I hope this helps in solving some of the most basic problems in life.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Girls Night Out..!!
Hey,
Like i had mentioned in the earlier post about going to the overnight party, it turned out to be amazing and totally cool!. I really had a fabulous time with my friends. We were awake till 6 in the morning!(No wonder I am feeling sleep deprived). We talked for hours and hours continuously, had a midnight snack-though the snack was at 3 am, revealed many secrets, had a fashion show, took lots and lots of pics and made a lot of noise.
The lack of sleep is taking its toll on me today. Its really annoying when you have to do stuff like cleaning up your room, arranging cds and tidying your wardrobe. I am far from concentrating on my maths homework.
But i guess spendng time and having fun with friends is worth this annoyance.
During on of these sleepovers, we even made a song of our group. It goes like this-
"We'll always be there for each other,
Nothing can ever break us apart,
So what if we can't be together?
We'll still be woven heart-to-heart.....
Its changing seasons,
Its changing seasons..."
Like i had mentioned in the earlier post about going to the overnight party, it turned out to be amazing and totally cool!. I really had a fabulous time with my friends. We were awake till 6 in the morning!(No wonder I am feeling sleep deprived). We talked for hours and hours continuously, had a midnight snack-though the snack was at 3 am, revealed many secrets, had a fashion show, took lots and lots of pics and made a lot of noise.
The lack of sleep is taking its toll on me today. Its really annoying when you have to do stuff like cleaning up your room, arranging cds and tidying your wardrobe. I am far from concentrating on my maths homework.
But i guess spendng time and having fun with friends is worth this annoyance.
During on of these sleepovers, we even made a song of our group. It goes like this-
"We'll always be there for each other,
Nothing can ever break us apart,
So what if we can't be together?
We'll still be woven heart-to-heart.....
Its changing seasons,
Its changing seasons..."
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Friends Forever!


Hello Friends,
Friendship is the most valuable gift of life. I mean can you imagine life without friends?...I surely cannot. My motto in life about friends is "Always give in friendship, never expect to receive"....Believe me this will earn you more friends than you can imagine.
I have a friend circle of 13 best friends. I can trust them with my life. They are Manali, Pragya, Aishwarya, Dhanashree, Amala, Sayli, Pinank, Dhruv, Swayam, Rishabh, Vatsal, Biswajit and Soumeet.( They'll be happy for mentioning their names!!).
Well I am not saying that there are no ups and downs and hard ways in friendship( like in movies!)but you gotta fight your way out and patch up again. the most important thing in friendship is "forget and forgive".
At present I am very happy because vacation is going on and i get to hang out a lot with my friends. Yesterday, I went out with my friends to the mall and saw the movie -Julie and Julia. I loved the movie and inspired me to make a blog of my own.
Today, we are planning on having a sleepover and midnight feast!...How amazing!!...I am eagerly waiting for it...
Now i gotta go...mum's calling me...I'll surely fill up the things we did at sleepover and also post the pics for you to see...till then enjot your day...have fun and make lots of friends.
Some cute Love quotes..
"I have sworn thee fair,
and thought thee bright;
Who art as black as hell,
as dark as night"
(This was written by Shakespeare to a beautiful dark lady. It really brings out the true emotion of love by the use of lovely poetic language.)
"Death that hath sucked thy honey of thy breath, hath had no power yet upon thy beauty"
(I found this in the book New Moon- My all timr fav. book, written on Romeo's tomb dedicated to Juliet.)
"Gravity cannot be held responsible to people falling in Love"
"Through all time, love has strung beautiful art,
Does love now weave this vision in my heart?
Have two stars been taken straight from the sky,
Do they look back at me as I look into your eyes?
Love does separate us in lands so far,
Love does make this a trial so hard.
May I ask for one night to shrink this land,
May I have you just one night, just to reach your hand?
If my wish I may have not, let us kiss with our minds,
Let our words carry us together on winds of divine.
Love does separate us in lands far away,
But if love does ring true, I'll get to you some way."
- Joshua Blackwelder -
"Love, like a river, will cut a new path
whenever it meets an obstacle."
- Crystal Middlemas -
"You know you are in love
when you see the world in her eyes,
and her eyes everywhere in the world."
- David Levesque -
"
My love, I have tried with all my being
to grasp a form comparable to thine own,
but nothing seems worthy;
I know now why Shakespeare could not
compare his love to a summer’s day.
It would be a crime to denounce the beauty
of such a creature as thee,
to simply cast away the precision
God had placed in forging you.
Each facet of your being
whether it physical or spiritual
is an ensnarement
from which there is no release.
But I do not wish release.
I wish to stay entrapped forever.
With you for all eternity.
Our hearts, always as one."
- Anthony Kolos -
"I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.
I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "I Love You,"
And the way you're always there.
I love the way you touch me,
Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine."
- Crystal Jansen -
I will definitely put some more of them...Just let me know if you like them.
and thought thee bright;
Who art as black as hell,
as dark as night"
(This was written by Shakespeare to a beautiful dark lady. It really brings out the true emotion of love by the use of lovely poetic language.)
"Death that hath sucked thy honey of thy breath, hath had no power yet upon thy beauty"
(I found this in the book New Moon- My all timr fav. book, written on Romeo's tomb dedicated to Juliet.)
"Gravity cannot be held responsible to people falling in Love"
"Through all time, love has strung beautiful art,
Does love now weave this vision in my heart?
Have two stars been taken straight from the sky,
Do they look back at me as I look into your eyes?
Love does separate us in lands so far,
Love does make this a trial so hard.
May I ask for one night to shrink this land,
May I have you just one night, just to reach your hand?
If my wish I may have not, let us kiss with our minds,
Let our words carry us together on winds of divine.
Love does separate us in lands far away,
But if love does ring true, I'll get to you some way."
- Joshua Blackwelder -
"Love, like a river, will cut a new path
whenever it meets an obstacle."
- Crystal Middlemas -
"You know you are in love
when you see the world in her eyes,
and her eyes everywhere in the world."
- David Levesque -
"
My love, I have tried with all my being
to grasp a form comparable to thine own,
but nothing seems worthy;
I know now why Shakespeare could not
compare his love to a summer’s day.
It would be a crime to denounce the beauty
of such a creature as thee,
to simply cast away the precision
God had placed in forging you.
Each facet of your being
whether it physical or spiritual
is an ensnarement
from which there is no release.
But I do not wish release.
I wish to stay entrapped forever.
With you for all eternity.
Our hearts, always as one."
- Anthony Kolos -
"I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.
I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.
I love the way you say, "I Love You,"
And the way you're always there.
I love the way you touch me,
Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine."
- Crystal Jansen -
I will definitely put some more of them...Just let me know if you like them.
Crazy isssues of Love..
Hello again!
Well to tell you the truth, I am not an expert on love issues. In fact I have some problems of my own for example, I do not have a boyfriend!!(I mean it so embarrassing that I can hardly mention it). I mean everyone has a boyfriend 'cept me!!...But to tell you the truth I don't find any guyz upto the mark I want. One of my friends says that i have high expectations but i wonder how. I mean everyone wants their bf/gf to be perfect as in good looking, smart, funny, understanding, loving, caring, brave etc...
I really don't get the fact that how to deal with hormonal changes like crushes, infatuations and frissons. Many times due to frissons you act really stupid and dumb like when he/she(your crush) asks you about your day, you just stand there, staring at him/her like an utter moron and say something that only an alien can understand! You make a complete fool out of yourself! There is gotta be a way of avoiding such social faux pas.
I am quite sure there are many unknown people like me who have such horrible issues!! Whoever reads this, please do help me in finding solution to this problem and save others from making a fool out of themselves.
Well to tell you the truth, I am not an expert on love issues. In fact I have some problems of my own for example, I do not have a boyfriend!!(I mean it so embarrassing that I can hardly mention it). I mean everyone has a boyfriend 'cept me!!...But to tell you the truth I don't find any guyz upto the mark I want. One of my friends says that i have high expectations but i wonder how. I mean everyone wants their bf/gf to be perfect as in good looking, smart, funny, understanding, loving, caring, brave etc...
I really don't get the fact that how to deal with hormonal changes like crushes, infatuations and frissons. Many times due to frissons you act really stupid and dumb like when he/she(your crush) asks you about your day, you just stand there, staring at him/her like an utter moron and say something that only an alien can understand! You make a complete fool out of yourself! There is gotta be a way of avoiding such social faux pas.
I am quite sure there are many unknown people like me who have such horrible issues!! Whoever reads this, please do help me in finding solution to this problem and save others from making a fool out of themselves.
knowing me
Hello everyone!
Like i have mentioned it, I am an average teenage girl of 17 years. I will try and give you the best and closest description of myself- I have dark long hair, dark brown huge eyes and fair skin. I am five feet five inches tall and weigh 100 pounds. I am perfectly normal without having any special powers or without having a secret identity of being a superstar. I am neither a princess nor a vampire but just a regular college girl with decent looks and style. I am not a punk but a girl who is very girlie. I like listening to songs especially of pussycat dolls, taylor swift, westlife and some others. I like watching t.v., coming online, shopping, watching movies and hanging out with friends. I am extremely lucky to have wonderful and loyal friends. I hate people who do not understand you or worse who do not trust you for your judgement. I am an animal lover and thus a pure vegeterian. I am surely going to donate a huge amount of money to PETA organisation and Save Earth campaign. I am totally against cutting down and deforestation of trees.
Well this was a vague idea of myself. This was given so that you are more comfortable in relating with me and my as well as other teenagers' issues.
Like i have mentioned it, I am an average teenage girl of 17 years. I will try and give you the best and closest description of myself- I have dark long hair, dark brown huge eyes and fair skin. I am five feet five inches tall and weigh 100 pounds. I am perfectly normal without having any special powers or without having a secret identity of being a superstar. I am neither a princess nor a vampire but just a regular college girl with decent looks and style. I am not a punk but a girl who is very girlie. I like listening to songs especially of pussycat dolls, taylor swift, westlife and some others. I like watching t.v., coming online, shopping, watching movies and hanging out with friends. I am extremely lucky to have wonderful and loyal friends. I hate people who do not understand you or worse who do not trust you for your judgement. I am an animal lover and thus a pure vegeterian. I am surely going to donate a huge amount of money to PETA organisation and Save Earth campaign. I am totally against cutting down and deforestation of trees.
Well this was a vague idea of myself. This was given so that you are more comfortable in relating with me and my as well as other teenagers' issues.
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